To get your bust size, measure horizontally around the widest part of your bust.

To get your waist size, measure around the part of your waist you plan to wear your lehenga. Our lehenga skirts can be worn high waisted or low waisted depending on your preference.

A full tutorial can be found here.

If you are looking for a size not listed under a product, message us via Instagram or email us here to request your size.

Shipping is free for all USA orders over $100.

International shipping costs are nominal depending on the destination country. Please note that Desi Is Me doesn’t charge any applicable taxes or duties imposed by customs and revenue authorities in the destination country. Payment of duties and/or taxes are buyer responsibility; we unfortunately can’t control these fees.

Yes. We offer international shipping to most locations outside the USA. However, please note that we charge a nominal shipping cost depending on the destination country. International shipping could take 5 to 10 days for delivery.

When we receive your order, we aim to ship all in stock items within 1-2 days. Please reference each product’s shipping details to see if the product is in stock.

If shipping within the USA, FedEx Express delivers in 3 days. International shipments take 5 to 10 days depending on the destination country. Please note that shipping times are given as estimates – sometimes there are delays in transit that are unfortunately out of our control.

Need your order faster? Email us at customer_service@desiisme.com to inquire about express shipping options.

We recommend signing up for FedEx Delivery Manager so you can control your delivery and receive timely updates.

Yes, all of our blouses have cups!

We do customization (blouse design, color etc) for an order of 5+ lehengas. We currently do not offer individual custom orders.

Our outfits are the perfect choice for your bridesmaids and groomsmen! We offer customized sizing and designs to meet the needs of your bridal party! Get started by learning more here.

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Each lehenga is hand dyed by our artisans in India to give it a unique handloom look so you may be seeing slight color variations due to these fabric dying processes.

Given that we work to fulfill orders ASAP, all orders must be cancelled within 24 hours of purchase (including pre-order). Please ensure you’re confident in your purchase before submitting your order! 

If requested prior to order processing, we may be able to add items or modify the size of ordered items. Please shoot us an email for order modifications here.

If your order is deemed lost, we will issue a re-shipment.

Kindly note that Desi Is Me is not responsible for packages scanned delivered that can’t be located. Porch Piracy has increased as of recent and we recommend tracking your package closely and checking with house members &/or neighbors post delivery.  

Dry clean only.


  • Please contact us at customer_service@desiisme.com to request an RMA number (return material authorization). 
  • Returns/exchanges must be requested within 5 business days of receiving your order. Once authorized, items must be postmarked within 7 business days of the approval.
  • Items must be received in original condition – unworn, unwashed, with all tags still attached.
  • Orders that have been customized are non-returnable. Jewelry and sale items are also final sale.
  • We process all returns within 7 business days of receiving your items. International return packages can take longer to reach our facility. 
  • Please contact us if you believe your product is damaged or faulty. We will treat this with the highest priority.


  • Refunds and exchanges are offered but must be authorized by our team before proceeding.
  • Once authorized, we ask that you ship your package back to us at the following address: Receiving Department (RMA#), Desi Is Me, 2010 Valley Oak Rd, Pleasanton, CA 94588 USA
  • We do not provide any return shipping label or postage.
  • Due to the nature of our garments, all returns are subject to a 10% restocking fee.
  • Depending on your payment method, funds may take up to 7 business days to post to your account. 
  • All refunds will be processed back to the original payment method used to place the order. 
  • Exchanges are processed only once we have received the original item(s). Once received, your exchange must be requested within 7 business days. If not requested within this time frame, your order will automatically be issued as a refund.   


  • Please note: If you have paid original postage to receive your order and a return is made then this is non-refundable.
  • Duties, taxes, and VAT are not refunded on international returns.
  • USA returns shipping address: Receiving Department (RMA#), Desi Is Me, 2010 Valley Oak Rd, Pleasanton, CA 94588 USA